Auren Musulunci da zamantakewar iyali sun ginu ne a kan soyayya, tausayi, da kare lafiyar juna. Daya daga cikin manyan kura-kurai da ke faruwa a tsakanin wasu ma’aurata shi ne yin saduwa ba tare da la’akari da jin mace da lafiyarta ba.
Wannan na iya janyo zafi, tsoro, da ma rashin jin daɗin aure gaba ɗaya.
Wannan rubutu zai bayyana yadda ake saduwa cikin hikima, domin a kare mace daga cutuwa, a kuma ƙarfafa soyayya da fahimtar juna.
- Fahimtar Halin Da Mace Take Ciki
Ba kowace mace ba ce ke shirye a kowane lokaci.
– Gajiya
– Damuwa
– Rashin lafiya
– Canjin yanayin jiki (haila, ciki, ko bayan haihuwa)
👉 Namiji ya kamata ya tambaya kuma ya lura, ba tilastawa ba. - Muhimmancin Shirya Mace (Foreplay)
Daya daga cikin manyan dalilan da ke cutar da mace yayin saduwa shi ne gaggawa.
Shiryawa na nufin:
Magana mai dadi
Runguma da shafawa
Nuna kulawa da soyayya
Idan mace ta shirya:
Gabanta yana yin ruwa
Zafi yana raguwa
Jin daɗi yana ƙaruwa - Gujewa Ƙarfi Da Gaggawa
Saduwa ba gwaji ba ce, kuma ba fafatawa ba ce.
– Ƙarfi da matsa lamba na iya janyo rauni
– Zai iya haddasa tsoro ga mace
– Yana rage sha’awa a gaba
👉 A yi komai a hankali da tausayi. - Sauraron Mace Yana Da Matuƙar Muhimmanci
Idan mace ta ce:
“Ina jin zafi”
“Na gaji”
“Bari mu dakata”
To dakatawa wajibi ne, ba laifi ba ne, ba rauni ba ne.
Sauraron mace:
Yana ƙara amincewa
Yana ƙarfafa soyayya
Yana kare lafiyarta - Tsabta Da Kula Da Lafiya
Yin wanka kafin saduwa
Tsaftace jiki da baki
Gujewa saduwa idan akwai cuta ko kaikayi
Idan mace tana fama da:
Zafi mai tsanani
Jini ba tare da dalili ba
Wari mara kyau
👉 A nemi shawarar likita, ba a yi shiru ba. - Saduwa Ta Gaskiya Ita Ce Wadda Ke Gina Aure
Saduwa ba wai don jin daɗin namiji kaɗai ba ce.
Auren da ya daɗe yana buƙatar:
Girmamawa
Tausayi
Fahimtar juna
Namijin da ke kare matarsa daga cutuwa shi ne jarumin aure na gaskiya.
Daga Karshe:
Yadda ake saduwa ba tare da cutar da mace ba ya ta’allaka ne da hankali, tausayi, da ilimi. Duk inda mace ta ji tsoro ko zafi, saduwa ta rasa ma’anarta. Jin daɗi na gaskiya yana zuwa ne idan dukkan bangarori biyu suna cikin walwala.
