Auren Musulunci ya ginu ne kan fahimtar juna, tausayi, da girmamawa. Sai dai rashin ilimi kan yadda jikin mace ke aiki yana sa wasu maza su yi kuskure wajen fahimtar sha’awar matansu.
Daya daga cikin tambayoyin da ake yawan yi ita ce: shin gaban mace na “tashi” kamar yadda azzakarin namiji ke tashi?
Wannan rubutu zai yi bayani cikin gaskiya da ilimi, domin amfanin ma’aurata.
Amsa A Takaice
Eh, gaban mace yana samun canji lokacin da take jin sha’awa, amma ba irin na namiji ba, kuma ba a bayyane yake ba.
Ta Fuskar Kimiyya: Yadda Sha’awa Ke Aiki A Jikin Mace
A jikin mace akwai wani sashi mai matuƙar jin daɗi da ake kira clitoris. Wannan sashi:
Shi ne cibiyar jin daɗin mace
Yana da jijiyoyin jin taɓawa masu yawa
Yana amsawa sosai idan mace ta ji sha’awa
Lokacin da mace ta ji sha’awa:
Jini yana ƙaruwa zuwa clitoris
Clitoris yana kumbura kaɗan
Farji yana fara yin ruwa (lubrication)
Jiki yana shiga yanayin shiri
👉 Wannan kumburin ne wasu ke kira da cewa “gaban mace ya tashi”.
Bambanci Tsakanin Namiji Da Mace
Namiji
Mace
Azzakari yana tashi a fili
Clitoris yana kumbura kaɗan
Ana iya gani da ido
Sau da yawa ba a ganewa
Yana yin tauri sosai
Ba ya yin taurin azzakari
Alamar shirye-shiryen saduwa
Alamar sha’awa da jin daɗi
👉 Don haka, ba daidai suke ba, amma duka suna nuna sha’awa.
Dalilin Da Yasa Wasu Ba Su Fahimta
Clitoris yawancinsa yana ciki
Ba kowace mace ke nuna canji a fili ba
Sha’awar mace tana bukatar natsuwa da shiri, ba gaggawa ba
Abin Da Ya Kamata Miji Ya Sani
Mace ba injin ba ce
Sha’awarta tana tashi ne a hankali
Magana mai taushi, kulawa, shafa da natsuwa suna da muhimmanci
Idan ba ta shirya ba, jima’i na iya zama da zafi ko rashin gamsuwa
Ta Fuskar Addini
Musulunci ya koyar da:
Tausayi a zamantakewar aure
Yin shiri kafin saduwa
Girmama jin daɗin mace
Annabi ﷺ ya yi nuni da muhimmancin kada miji ya kusanci matarsa ba tare da kulawa da shiri ba.
Kammalawa
✔️ Gaban mace yana samun canjin sha’awa
❌ Amma ba ya “tashi” kamar na namiji
👉 Fahimtar wannan na taimaka wa ma’aurata su samu gamsuwa, lafiya da ƙarin soyayya
