Akwai ra’ayoyi da dama a cikin al’umma cewa wasu siffofin jiki na mace suna da alaƙa kai tsaye da yadda take a shimfiɗa.
Amma idan aka duba ta fuskar ilimin likitanci da kimiyyar halitta, gaskiyar magana ta bambanta da abin da mutane da yawa ke zato.
A nan za mu yi bayani kan wasu siffofi da ake yawan ambata, mu fayyace asalinsu da kuma ko suna da alaƙa da jin daɗin jima’i ko a’a.
Dimples (Lotsin Kunci)
Lotsin kunci yana faruwa ne sakamakon wani ƙaramin sauyi a cikin tsokar fuska da ake kira zygomaticus major muscle.
Wannan tsoka kan kasance gajera a wasu mutane, shi ne ke haifar da ramin da ake gani yayin murmushi.
A ilimin likitanci, dimples alama ce ta kyawu kawai.
Ba su da wata alaƙa kai tsaye da sha’awa ko jin daɗin jima’i.
Abin da suke yi shi ne ƙara burgewa a ido ga wasu mutane.
Wushirya (Gap Teeth)
Wushirya ko tazara tsakanin haƙoran gaba yana faruwa ne saboda tsarin yadda haƙora suka zauna a cikin muƙami.
Wani lokaci yana da alaƙa da girman muƙami ko motsin haƙora yayin da haƙorin hankali ya fito.
Kamar dimples, wannan ma siffa ce ta halitta da ake ɗauka a matsayin ado a wasu al’adu.
Ba ta da alaƙa da ƙarin jin daɗin jima’i.
Gurun Wuya (Neck Folds)
Gurun wuya galibi yana bayyana ne a wurin mata masu ƙiba ko waɗanda shekarunsu suka ja.
Yana da alaƙa da yadda kitse ke kwance a ƙarƙashin fata.
Wannan siffa tana nuna tsarin jiki kawai. Ba ta da wata alaƙa kai tsaye da yadda mace take a shimfiɗa.
Ƙashin Kafaɗa (Collar Bone)
Ƙashin kafaɗa yana fi bayyana a wurin mata sirara ko masu tsarin jiki na musamman.
Wasu mutane na ganin wannan a matsayin abin burgewa.
Amma burgewa abu ne na sha’awar mutum.
Sha’awa tana farawa ne daga kwakwalwa, ba daga wata siffa ta jiki da ke tabbatar da wani ƙarin jin daɗi ba.
Muhimmin Abu Game da Jin Daɗin Aure
Gaskiyar magana ita ce: jin daɗin jima’i ba ya ta’allaka ga waɗannan siffofin jiki.
Yana da alaƙa da:
lafiyar jiki da tsafta,
jituwar ma’aurata,
kwanciyar hankali,
soyayya da fahimtar juna,
hikima da dabarar mu’amala.
Wadannan su ne ginshiƙan gamsuwa a rayuwar aure.
A Dunƙule
Dimples, wushirya, gurun wuya da bayyanar ƙashin kafaɗa siffofi ne na halitta da wasu mutane ke gani a matsayin kyawu.
Amma ba su da wata hujjar kimiyya da ke nuna cewa suna ƙara jin daɗin jima’i.
Abin da ya fi muhimmanci shi ne mace ta yarda da kanta, ta kula da lafiyarta, kuma ta guji kwatanta kanta da wasu.
Sha’awa tana cikin kwakwalwa, jin daɗi yana cikin fahimtar juna, kyawu kuma ido ne ke ganinsa.
Ra’ayin mutum kan abin da yake burge shi na iya bambanta da na wani.
Amma bai kamata a mai da ra’ayi ya zama doka ga kowa ba.
Hikima, ilimi da halayen mutum su ne ke gina kyakkyawar rayuwar aure, ba siffofin jiki kawai ba.
