A rayuwar aure, fahimtar jikin juna da bukatun jima’i na da matukar muhimmanci.
Musamman ma a lokutan da mace ke cikin al’ada, akwai tambayoyi da yawa da maza suke yi:
“Shin wasa ko murza azzakari yana da illa a wannan lokaci?” Ko kuma “Tasha na iya cutar da ita?” Wannan labarin zai yi nazari sosai akan wannan batu.
Fahimtar Lokacin Al’ada
Al’ada wata hanya ce ta jiki wadda take tsaftace mahaifa da tsarkake jini. Yana daukan kimanin kwanaki 3 zuwa 7 a yawancin mata, kuma lokacin yana zuwa ne da wasu canje-canje a hormone da jikin mace.
Wannan lokaci yana da muhimmanci sosai wajen kiyaye lafiya da tsarin haihuwa.
Wasa/Murza Azzakari a Lokacin Al’ada
Wasa ko murza azzakari, idan mace tana cikin al’ada, ba shi da illa ga lafiyar mace da mai jiki idan an yi shi da hankali.
Amma akwai abubuwa da ya kamata a kula da su:
Tsabta: Tabbatar cewa hannu da azzakari sun tsabtace kafin yin wasa.
Kariya daga cututtuka: Yin amfani da condom na iya rage hadarin kamuwa da cututtuka.
Kar a matsa sosai: Yin amfani da karfi mai yawa na iya haifar da rashin jin dadi ga mace saboda al’ada na sanya mahaifa da farji suna da sensitivity.
Tasha a Lokacin Al’ada
Tasha na nufin “penetration” ko jima’i na al’ada. Likitoci da masana lafiya sun bayyana cewa:
Zai iya haifar da matsala: Lokacin al’ada, mahaifa tana bude dan kadan, hakan na iya kara hadarin kamuwa da cututtuka.
Jin dadi: Yawanci mace ba ta jin dadi sosai a wannan lokaci, saboda tsananin sensitivity da ciwon mara.
Tsaftar jiki: Rashin tsafta na iya haifar da infection, musamman ma lokacin al’ada.
Wanne Ya Fi Aminci?
Idan an kwatanta wasa/murza da tasha a lokacin al’ada:
Wasa/murza azzakari yana da rashin illa sosai idan aka yi shi da hankali.
Tasha na iya zama da illoli saboda sensitivity na jiki da kuma hadarin kamuwa da cututtuka.
Don haka, idan har maza suna son jin kusanci da matansu a lokacin al’ada, wasa ko murza azzakari shine mafi aminci. Wannan na taimaka wajen jin dadin juna ba tare da cutar da jikin mace ba.
Shawarwari Masu Amfani
Yin magana da juna: Auren lafiya yana farawa da fahimtar juna. Tambayi matarka yadda take ji.
Tabbatar da tsafta: Tsafta na kare duka bangarorin daga cututtuka.
Kula da jin dadi: Kada a yi amfani da karfi ko abu mai zafi.
A ƙarshe, soyayya da kusanci a aure ba sai ya kasance a lokacin da ba a cikin al’ada ba. Amma ya kamata mu fahimci cewa wasan azzakari yana da aminci fiye da tasha a lokacin al’ada. Fahimtar juna da kulawa na da matukar muhimmanci wajen gina aure mai lafiya da jin dadi.
