Akwai yawan fahimta kuskure game da abin da ake kira “jikewa” a farjin mace, inda wasu ke ɗauka cewa duk lokacin da mace ta jike, to lallai tana jin daɗi ko kuma ta kai kololuwa. A hakikanin gaskiya, jikewa ba koyaushe yana nufin gamsuwa ba, kuma rashin jikewa ma ba lallai yana nufin rashin sha’awa ba.
Menene “Jikewa” A Farjin Mace?
Jikewa wata amsar halitta ce ta jikin mace wadda ke faruwa lokacin da:
sha’awa ta fara motsuwa,
kwakwalwa ta aika sako ga jiki,
sannan farji ya fitar da ruwa domin rage gogayya da kare jiki.
Wannan ruwa na kariya ne, kuma yana taimakawa wajen sauƙaƙa kusanci.
Abubuwan Da Jikewa Ke Iya Nuna
Sha’awa ta fara motsuwa, ba lallai ba ne ta kai kololuwa.
Jiki ya shirya, amma tunani na iya kasancewa a wani yanayi dabam.
Amsar sinadaran jiki, ba tilas sai akwai cikakkiyar natsuwa ta zuciya ba.
Abubuwan Da Jikewa BA LALLE Yake Nuna Ba
Ba lallai yana nuna gamsuwa cikakke ba.
Ba hujja ba ce cewa mace tana jin daɗi sosai.
Ba alamar cewa duk abin da ake yi yana mata daɗi ba.
Dalilin Da Yasa Wata Mace Zata Jike Amma Bata Ji Daɗi Ba
Damuwa ko tsoro
Rashin shiri ko kulawa
Zafi ko rashin jin daɗi a jiki
Matsalar lafiyar farji
Ko kuma yin abu ne ba tare da cikakkiyar fahimta da sadarwa ba
Shin Rashin Jikewa Matsala Ce?
Ba koyaushe ba. Rashin jikewa na iya faruwa saboda:
gajiya,
damuwa,
sauyin hormones,
shan wasu magunguna,
ko kuma rashin isasshen wasan shiri.
Abin da ya fi muhimmanci shi ne jin daɗi da kwanciyar hankali, ba wai ruwa kawai ba.
Muhimmancin Fahimtar Juna Tsakanin Ma’aurata
Ma’aurata su fahimci cewa:
Jima’i ba gasa ba ne
Jikewa ba ita ce ma’aunin gamsuwa ba
Tattaunawa, kulawa, da fahimta su ne ginshiƙai
Abun Lura:
“Jikewa” wata alama ce ta halittar jiki, amma ba ita kaɗai ke nuna jin daɗi ko gamsuwa ba. Fahimtar wannan gaskiya na taimakawa wajen gina zaman aure mai natsuwa, soyayya, da mutunta juna.
