Maza ba kamar mata ba ne wajen nuna sha’awa. Wasu kan nuna a fili, wasu kuma suna boye. Amma akwai alamomi da ba za su iya boye ba. Wannan labarin zai koya miki yadda za ki gane mijinki yana cikin sha’awa.
1. Al’aurarsa Ta Tashi (Ta Yi Karfi)
Wannan ita ce babbar alama da ba za a iya boye ba.
Abin Da Ke Faruwa:
- Al’aurar namiji kan tashi idan yana sha’awa
- Ba zai iya boye ba
- Idan kun zauna kusa, za ki ji
Abin Da Za Ki Yi:
- Idan kina shirye, ki nuna masa
- Kar ki yi masa kunya
2. Yakan Kusance Ki Ba Dalili
Alamomin:
- Yana zaune kusa da ke
- Yana neman uzuri ya taba ki
- Yana taba bayanka, kafadarka, ko hannunki
- Yana son ya rungume ki
Ma’ana:
- Yana son jikinki
- Sha’awa ce ke jan shi
3. Idanunsa Sun Canja
Alamomin:
- Yana kallonki daban
- Idanunsa suna da wani haske
- Yana kallon sassan jikinki
- Ba ya gushe yana kallonki
Ma’ana:
- Sha’awa tana cikin zuciyarsa
- Yana tunanin saduwa
4. Muryarsa Ta Canja
Alamomin:
- Muryarsa ta yi laushi
- Yana magana a hankali
- Yana yi miki magana a kunne
- Muryar tana da dadi daban
Ma’ana:
- Yana kokarin jan hankalinka
- Sha’awa ce ke sa hakan
5. Numfashinsa Ya Canja
Alamomin:
- Numfashinsa ya karu
- Yana shakar iska da karfi
- Jikinsa ya yi dumi
- Bugun zuciyarsa ya karu
Ma’ana:
- Jikinsa yana shirye
- Hormones suna aiki
Wasu Alamomi Karin
| Alama | Ma’ana |
|---|---|
| Yana lashe lebe | Yana sha’awa |
| Yana gyara rigarsa | Yana son ya yi kyau a gare ki |
| Yana son kadaici | Yana son saduwa |
| Yana yaba miki | Yana neman hanyar kusanci |
| Yana taba gashinki | Sha’awa ce |
| Ba ya son ka tafi |
Amma:*
- A aure, duka biyun suna nan
- Miji zai nuna soyayya da sha’awa
Abin Da Za Ki Yi Idan Kin Ga Alamomin
1. Idan Kina Shirye:
- Ki nuna masa kina son shi
- Ki kusance shi
- Ki amsa sha’awarsa
2. Idan Ba Ki Shirye Ba:
- Ki gaya masa da kyau
- Kar ki yi masa kunya
- Ki nemi uzuri mai kyau
- Ki yi masa alkawari wani lokaci
Lokutan Da Maza Sukan Fi Sha’awa
- Da asuba bayan sun farka
- Da dare kafin barci
- Idan sun ga matarsu da kyau
- Bayan sun dawo daga balaguro
- Idan ba a yi saduwa ba na kwanaki
Abin Da Ke Kara Sha’awar Maza
- Ganin matarsu da kayan kwalliya
- Turare mai dadi
- Kyakkyawar riga
- Murmushin mata
- Tausa jiki
- Magana mai dadi
Abin Da Ke Kashe Sha’awar Maza
- Fushi da maganganu masu zafi
- Rashin tsafta
- Rashin kulawa
- Kin amsa sha’awarsa sau da yawa
- Gajiya
- Damuwa da matsaloli
Nasiha Ga Mata
- Koyi alamomin sha’awar mijinki
- Kar ki yi masa kunya idan yana sha’awa
- Amsa sha’awarsa idan za ki iya
- Yi masa magana da kyau idan ba ki shirye ba
- Kiyaye sha’awar aurenku
Nasiha Ga Maza
- Kar ka boye sha’awarka daga matarka
- Amma kar ka tilasta mata
- Yi mata romance kafin saduwa
- Nuna mata soyayya ba sha’awa kawai ba
Maza suna nuna sha’awa ta hanyoyi daban-daban. Mace mai hikima za ta iya ganin wadannan alamomi. Fahimtar sha’awar juna yana karfafa aure kuma yana kawo gamsuwa.
