Soyayya da shagwaba abubuwa biyu ne daban-daban. Ɗaya yana gina dangantaka, ɗaya yana rusawa. Wannan labari zai koya muku bambancin su.
Soyayya ita ce ƙaunar mutum da gaskiya – zuciyarka, hankalinka, da niyyarka duk suna tare. Kana son alherin wannan mutum, ba don kanka kawai ba.
Menene Shagwaba?
Shagwaba ita ce sha’awar jiki kawai. Kana son jikin mutum, ba zuciyarsa ba. Da zarar ka samu abinda kake so, sha’awar tana mutuwa.
Bambanci Tsakanin Su
| Soyayya | Shagwaba |
|---|---|
| Tana daɗewa | Ba ta daɗewa |
| Tana haƙuri | Ba ta haƙuri |
| Tana gina | Tana rusawa |
| Tana son zuciya | Tana son jiki kawai |
| Tana neman aure | Tana neman jin daɗi |
Alamomin Soyayya
- Kana son ta ko da ba ta da kyau
- Kana tunaninta ko da kun yi faɗa
- Kana son moriyarta, ba taka kawai ba
- Kana shirye ka yi haƙuri
Alamomin Shagwaba
- Sai ka gan ta jikinka yake motsa
- Ba ka son jin matsalolinta
- Da zarar ka samu abinda kake so, ka gundura
- Ba ka tunanin makoma tare
Soyayya tana gina aure mai ɗorewa. Shagwaba tana ƙare da nadama. Ka san abinda kake ciki, ka zaɓi hanya mai kyau.
