A yau, batun family planning (tsara iyali) yana daga cikin muhimman abubuwan da ma’aurata ke tattaunawa akai.
Wasu suna tambaya: shin ya halatta a yi amfani da condom a cikin aure?
Wannan tambaya tana da muhimmanci, domin tana shafar rayuwar aure, lafiyar ma’aurata, da kuma addini.
A wannan rubutu, za mu bayyana gaskiya bisa ilimin lafiya da koyarwar Musulunci.
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Menene Condom?
Condom wata hanya ce da ake amfani da ita wajen hana daukar ciki da kuma kare yaduwar cututtuka yayin jima’i.
Ana sanya shi ne kafin saduwa domin hana maniyyi shiga cikin mahaifa.
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Fa’idodin Amfani da Condom
Amfani da condom yana da wasu muhimman fa’idoji, musamman ga ma’aurata:
Yana taimakawa wajen hana daukar ciki na wani lokaci
Yana kare lafiyar ma’aurata daga wasu cututtuka
Ba ya da illa idan aka yi amfani da shi yadda ya dace
Yana ba ma’aurata damar tsara rayuwarsu
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Hukuncin Addinin Musulunci
A mahangar malamai da dama:
Amfani da condom a tsakanin ma’aurata ya halatta, idan aka cika wasu sharudda:
1. Amincewar Ma’aurata
Dole ne miji da mata su yarda da juna kafin amfani da shi.
2. Ba Don Hana Haihuwa Gaba Daya Ba
Ana amfani da shi ne na dan lokaci, ba don hana haihuwa gaba daya ba.
3. Babu Illa ga Lafiya
Idan ba ya kawo wata matsala ga jiki, to babu laifi a amfani da shi.
4. Ba Ya Tauye Hakkin Aure
Dole ne amfani da shi kada ya rage jin dadin aure ko haifar da matsala tsakanin ma’aurata.
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Dangantaka da ‘Azl a Musulunci
A zamanin Sahabbai, ana amfani da hanyar da ake kira ‘azl (janye maniyyi kafin ya shiga farji). Malamai da dama sun amince da wannan hanya.
Saboda haka, condom yana daga cikin hanyoyin zamani da suka yi kama da wannan tsarin.
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Lokutan da Ya Fi Dacewa a Yi Amfani da Shi
Amfani da condom ya fi dacewa a wasu lokuta kamar:
Idan mace tana bukatar hutu tsakanin haihuwa
Idan akwai matsalar lafiya da ciki zai iya jawo illa
Idan ma’aurata suna son tsara rayuwarsu kafin karin yara
Idan akwai matsalolin tattalin arziki
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Abubuwan da Ya Kamata a Kula Da Su
Kada a tilasta wa daya daga cikin ma’aurata
Kada a mai da shi hanyar hana haihuwa gaba daya ba tare da dalili ba
Yana da kyau a tuntubi likita idan akwai matsalar lafiya
A nemi shawarar malamai idan akwai shakku a addini
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Amfani da condom a cikin aure yana daga cikin hanyoyin halal na tsara iyali, matukar an yi shi cikin yarda, hikima, da bin ka’idojin addinin Musulunci.
Manufar ita ce:
Kiyaye lafiya
Samar da zaman lafiya a aure
Tsara rayuwa cikin hikima
Soyayya da aure suna bukatar fahimta da haɗin kai, kuma irin wannan shawara tana taimakawa wajen gina gida mai ƙarfi.
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