Addinin Musulunci addini ne da ya tanadi tsafta, mutunci da kuma kyawawan dabi’u ga maza da mata.
A cikin koyarwar Manzon Allah (SAW), akwai wasu halaye da aka tsawatar musamman ga mata saboda illolinsu ga rayuwa da kuma lahira.
Wannan ba don a tsoratar ba ne kawai, sai dai domin a gyara hali, a tsarkake zuciya, da kuma samun yardar Allah.
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Mata 10 Da Aka Gargadi A Kansu
1. Mata Masu Tsaga Fuskokinsu
Wato yin gyaran jiki ta hanyar canza halittar Allah (cosmetic alteration ba tare da dalili ba).
Wannan yana nuna rashin gamsuwa da yadda Allah ya halicce su.
2. Mata Masu Aske Gashin Ido
Ana nufin cire ko rage gira domin kyau. An hana hakan domin yana cikin canza halitta.
3. Mata Masu Kankare Hakori
Wato gyaran hakora domin ado (hushirya) ba tare da larura ba.
4. Mai Karin Gashi Da Wadda Ake Karama Mata Gashi
Duk wadda ke hada gashi na bogi ko ake hada mata domin ƙawatawa ta hanyar yaudara.
5. Matar Da Mijinta Ya Yi Fushi Da Ita
Idan mace ta ki bin mijinta ba tare da dalili na shari’a ba, hakan na iya jawo fushin Allah.
6. Mata Masu Shigar Maza
Mace da ke kwaikwayon maza a tufafi ko dabi’a – wannan an hana shi a Musulunci.
7. Mata Masu Yawan Ziyartar Makabarta
Ba a hana ziyara gaba daya ba, amma yawaitawa da nuna rashin juriya na iya zama matsala.
8. Mata Masu Kururuwa Akan Mamaci
Yin kuka da ihu, duka ko nuna rashin hakuri yayin rasuwa – wannan ya saba da koyarwar Musulunci.
9. Mata Masu Auren “Kashe Wuta”
Wato auren da ba na gaskiya ba (temporary or fake marriage), wanda ya sabawa tsarin aure na Musulunci.
10. Mata Masu Bayyana Tsiraici
Duk wata mace da ke bayyana jikinta ga jama’a ba tare da sutura mai kyau ba – wannan yana daga cikin manyan sabo.
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Hadisin Gargadi
Manzon Allah (SAW) ya yi kira ga mata da cewa:
> “Ya ku taron mata! Ku yawaita sadaqa, ku kuma yawaita neman gafara (istigfari).”
Wannan yana nuna muhimmancin tuba da gyara hali a rayuwar mace musulma.
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Darasi Ga Mata
Ki kiyaye mutuncinki da addininki
Ki guji kwaikwayon abin da bai dace ba
Ki yawaita ibada da neman gafara
Ki kasance mai biyayya ga Allah da mijinki (idan kina aure)
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Wannan gargadi ba don tsoratarwa kawai ba ne, amma domin tunatarwa.
Duk wanda ya gyara halinsa, Allah yana karɓar tubarsa.
Allah Ya shiryar da mu baki daya, Ya kuma sanya mu cikin bayinSa na gari.
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