A zamanin yau, fasahar zamani ta ba mutane damar aika hotuna da saƙonni cikin sauƙi.
Wasu mata kan tambayi ko halalta ne a Musulunci su rinka aika hotunan jikinsu ko tsaraici ga mazajensu.
Wannan batu yana bukatar a duba shi daga hanyar shari’a da tarbiyya.
1. Ka’idojin Musulunci
Musulunci ya haramta nuna sassan jikin mace ga duk wanda ba miji ko maharaminta ba.
Miji da mata sun halatta su ga jikin junansu ne kawai a cikin aure.
2. Aika Hotuna
Idan mace ta aika wa mijinta hoton kanta, abin da ke bayyana tsaraici ko bayyanar jiki da zai tada sha’awa yana da rikitarwa.
Wasu malamai suna ganin hakan yana kusa da haramcin batsa, saboda hoton zai iya haifar da sha’awa mai wuce gona da iri, ko kuma ajiye shi wajen da ba shi da tsari.
3. Hanyar Ladabi
Idan mace na so ta yi magana da mijinta ko ta nuna ƙauna, akwai hanyoyi masu tsabta da ladabi:
Aika saƙonni masu ƙauna da rubutu.
Hotunan fuska kawai, ko hoton sannu-sannu na salon tufafi, ba jiki ba.
Kiyaye cewa hoton ba zai iya shiga hannun wasu ba, ko zama hanyar batsa.
4. Shawarar Malamai
Mafi kyau, mace ta guji aika hotunan tsaraici, domin yana iya kai wa ga zunubi.
Amfani da sadarwa ta rubutu, murya, ko kira na wayar hannu zai fi aminci wajen ƙarfafa soyayya da girmama aure.
5. Muhimmancin Aminci
Miji da mata su kasance masu gaskiya da juna, da kuma kiyaye dokokin Allah.
Soyayya a aure ba wai ta dogara ne kawai akan bayyanar jiki ba, amma akan kulawa, fahimta, da girmama juna.
Karshe:
Musulunci ya bada damar soyayya da jima’i a cikin aure kawai.
Aika hotunan tsaraici ba halaltacce ba ne, kuma zai fi kyau a guje wa hakan.
Mafi kyau a mayar da hankali wajen gina aure mai ƙarfi da ƙauna ta gaskiya da ladabi.
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