“Saduwa mace a sama” yawanci ana nufin matsayi (position) inda mace take a sama yayin saduwa da mijinta.
Wannan batu ana tattauna shi a fannoni na ilimin aure, lafiya, da fahimtar juna, ba wai batsa ba.
- Menene Amfanin Wannan Matsayi?
A fannin ilimin aure, masana suna cewa wannan matsayi:
Yana bai wa mace ikon sarrafa motsi da yadda take jin dadi
Yana taimakawa mace ta ji kwanciyar hankali
Yana rage gajiya ga namiji
Yana kara kusanci da fahimtar juna tsakanin ma’aurata - Muhimmancin Fahimtar Juna
Kafin kowanne matsayi:
A yi magana da juna cikin ladabi
A fahimci abin da mace ke so ko ba ta so
Kada a tilasta abu da ba ta jin dadi
Aure mai lafiya yana ginuwa ne akan yarda da juna, mutunta juna, da soyayya. - Kulawa da Lafiya
A tabbatar da tsabta
A guji karfi ko matsin lamba
Idan mace tana fama da ciwo (kamar ciwon mara ko gajiya), a huta - Ta Fuskar Addini da Al’ada
A addinin Musulunci da al’adun Hausawa:
Abin da ke tsakanin miji da mata a sirrance ne
Ana so a kiyaye kunya da ladabi
Abin da bai cutar ba kuma ya kasance cikin aure yana da halacci - Abin da Yafi Muhimmanci
Ba matsayi ne ke gina aure ba, soyayya, hakuri, da fahimtar juna ne suke gina aure mai dorewa.
“Yadda ake saduwa mace a sama” ba batu ne na batsa ba idan an dauke shi a matsayin ilimi na aure da lafiyar jima’i. Abin da ya fi muhimmanci shi ne:
Jin dadin juna
Kiyaye lafiya
Mutunta mace
Danna Nan Don Samun Wasu Sirrikan Ma’aurata Da Soyayya
