Auren Musulunci ya ginu ne bisa kauna, tausayi da girmamawa. Jima’i a cikin aure ba kawai biyan bukata ba ne, ibada ce idan aka yi ta cikin halal.
Amma da yawa suna tambaya: wace irin mu’amala da farjin mace ce ta halasta? wace kuma ta haramta? me likitoci ke cewa?
Ga bayani dalla-dalla.
- Abin Da Addini Ya Halasta
✔️ Duk Wasan Da Ke Cikin Aure Kuma Babu Haram
A Musulunci:
Namiji da matarsa sun halasta wa juna.
Duk wani wasa, shafa, sumbata ko kusanci ya halasta muddin:
Ana yin sa ne cikin aure
Ba a aikata haram ba (kamar dubura)
Ba a cutar da jiki ko mutunci ba
Dalili daga Al-Kur’ani:
“Matanku gona ne a gare ku, ku zo gonarku yadda kuka so.”
— (Al-Baqarah: 223)
Malamai sun yi bayanin cewa “yadda kuka so” yana nufin salon jima’i amma ta gaba (farji), ba ta dubura ba. - Abubuwan Da Aka Haramta A Sarari
❌ Saduwa Ta Dubura (Baya)
Haram ne kwata-kwata
Annabi ﷺ ya ce:
“Allah bai duba mutumin da ya sadu da matarsa ta dubura.”
— (Hadisi mai inganci)
❌ Cutarda Mace Ko Tilasta Ta
Tilasta jima’i ko wasa da zafi
Rashin la’akari da jin daɗinta ➡️ Duk wannan ba daidai ba ne a addini. - Wasannin Da Suke Halal Kuma Suna Kara Gamsuwa
✔️ Wasan Hannu Da Shafa
Shafar farji a hankali
Wasan motsa sha’awa kafin saduwa ➡️ Likitoci sun ce hakan:
Yana taimaka wa mace ta yi lubrication (jikewa)
Yana rage zafi
Yana kara gamsuwa
✔️ Sumbata Da Kusanci
Sumbatar jiki (ba tare da tsiraici ba)
Runguma da shafar kirji, baya, wuya ➡️ Wannan yana:
Tada hormones na soyayya (oxytocin)
Rage tsoro da kunya
✔️ Magana Mai Taushi (Dirty Talk Cikin Ladabi)
Kalmomin soyayya
Yabon jiki da nuna kauna ➡️ Mata da dama magana ce ke fara tada musu sha’awa kafin taba jiki. - Shawarar Likitoci Game Da Wasan Farji
🩺 Likitoci Sun Goyon Bayan:
A yi wasa a hankali
A fara da foreplay kafin shigar azzakari
A kula da tsabta (hannaye, farji, baki)
⚠️ Likitoci Sun Gargadi:
Kada a saka abubuwa masu kaifi ko marasa tsafta
Kada a yi wasa da karfi
Kada a yi jima’i idan mace tana da ciwo, kaikayi ko kamuwa da cuta - Muhimmancin Girmama Mace
A Musulunci:
Mace amana ce
Jikinta ba kayan wasa ba ne
Jin daɗinta hakki ne
Annabi ﷺ ya ce:
“Mafi alherin ku shi ne wanda yafi alheri ga iyalinsa.”
Abun Lura:
Duk wani wasan da za ka yi da farjin matarka:
Ya kasance cikin aure
Ya guji haram
Ya kasance cikin tausayi da girmamawa
Ya dace da lafiyar jiki da shawarar likitoci
Idan aka kiyaye haka, jima’i yana zama: 👉 ibada + lafiya + soyayya
