Mata da dama suna buƙatar lokaci da shiri na musamman kafin su shiga jima’i. Wannan ba rauni ba ne, kuma ba wata matsala ba ce; yanayin halittar mace ne da kuma yadda jikinta da tunaninta suke aiki tare.
- Tsarin Jikin Mace Na Bukatar Shiri
Jikin mace ba ya shiga yanayin jin daɗi kai tsaye. Yana buƙatar:
natsuwa
kulawa
da motsa sha’awa a hankali
Wasan farko yana taimakawa jikin mace ya shirya, wanda hakan ke rage jin zafi kuma ke ƙara jin daɗi.
- Tunani Da Jiki Na Aiki Tare
A wajen mace, tunani yana taka muhimmiyar rawa. Idan ba ta ji kwanciyar hankali ba, ko tana cikin damuwa, jikinta ba zai amsa yadda ya kamata ba. Wasan farko yana taimakawa:
kawar da damuwa
ƙara kusanci
sa mace ta ji ana sonta kuma ana kulawa da ita
- Nuna Soyayya Da Kulawa
Wasu mata suna ganin wasan farko a matsayin:
alamar soyayya
girmamawa
da kulawa daga miji
Idan an yi gaggawa ba tare da kulawa ba, mace na iya jin kamar ana yin abu ne kawai don biyan buƙata, ba don soyayya ba.
- Karin Jin Daɗi Da Gamsuwa
Lokacin da aka ɗauki lokaci ana wasan farko:
mace na samun gamsuwa sosai
kusancin ma’aurata yana ƙaruwa
jin daɗin bangarorin biyu yana ƙaruwa
- Bambancin Halitta Tsakanin Mace Da Namiji
Namiji yawanci yana saurin shiga yanayin sha’awa, amma mace tana buƙatar lokaci. Fahimtar wannan bambanci yana taimakawa ma’aurata su gina zaman aure mai daɗi da fahimta.
Muhimman Abun Lura
Wasan farko ba ɓata lokaci ba ne; ginshiƙi ne na jima’i mai daɗi da gamsarwa ga mace. Duk lokacin da miji ya fahimci wannan, zai fi samun kwanciyar hankali da farin ciki a zamantakewar aure.
Jima’i tafiya ce ta fahimta, ba gaggawa ba.
