A farkon aure:
soyayya tana da zafi
sha’awa tana ƙarfi
kulawa tana yawa
Amma bayan lokaci, wasu maza suna fara:
kaucewa matansu
rashin nuna kulawa
raguwar sha’awa
Me ke jawo hakan?
- Rashin sabuntawa a aure
Idan aure ya zama:
kullum iri ɗaya
babu canji
babu ƙoƙari
sha’awa tana raguwa.
Zuciya tana bukatar sabon abu kamar jiki.
- Rashin tattaunawa
Idan ma’aurata basa:
faɗin abin da suke ji
bayyana damuwarsu
tattauna bukata
to zuciya tana rufewa,
kuma sha’awa tana bacewa.
- Gajiya da damuwa
Namiji da:
aiki ya dame shi
bashi ko matsala
rashin hutu
zuciyarsa tana gajiya,
kuma sha’awarsa tana raguwa.
- Rashin kulawa daga mace
Idan mace ta daina:
nuna soyayya
kula da kamanni
magana mai taushi
namiji yana jin:
“Ba a damuwa da ni.”
- Kallon batsa da tunanin waje
Wannan yana:
lalata kwakwalwa
rage jin daɗin aure
sa miji ya kwatanta matar sa da karya
Yadda Za a Gyara
✔ Tattaunawa
✔ Sabunta soyayya
✔ Rage abin da ke kashe sha’awa
✔ Kulawa da juna
✔ Komawa ga Allah
Kammalawa
Rashin sha’awa ba yana nufin rashin so ba.
Yana nufin:
“Aure yana buƙatar gyara.”
Idan aka yi aiki a kai, soyayya na dawowa da ƙarfi fiye da da.
