Yawancin mutane suna ganin sanyi a matsayin lokaci na wahala – amma ga ma’aurata, musamman sabbin ma’aurata, sanyi na daga cikin lokutan da suka fi kawo kusanci, soyayya da jin daɗin aure.
A wannan rubutu, za mu bayyana dalilan da suka sa sabuwar aure yafi daɗi lokacin sanyi fiye da kowane lokaci.
- Sanyi yana ƙara buƙatar kusanci
A lokacin sanyi:
jiki yana neman dumi
zuciya tana son kusanci
ma’aurata suna neman runguma da zama kusa
Wannan yana sa:
soyayya ta ƙaru,
kusanci ya ƙaru,
kuma jin daɗin zama tare ya fi yawa.
Sabbin ma’aurata musamman suna amfani da wannan dama wajen gina soyayya mai ƙarfi. - Dumi na jiki yana ƙara jin daɗin zama tare
Lokacin da ma’aurata suka:
rufe juna da bargo
rungumi juna
kwanta kusa
jiki yana sakin sinadaran oxytocin – wato hormone na soyayya. Wannan na sa:
kwanciyar hankali
jin ƙauna
da sha’awar zama tare
Saboda haka, sanyi na taimakawa soyayya ta zurfafa. - Rashin zafi yana sa jiki ya fi amsawa
A lokacin zafi:
jiki na gajiya
gumi da rashin jin daɗi na yawaita
Amma a lokacin sanyi:
jiki yana da natsuwa
jini yana zagayawa da kyau
kwakwalwa na karɓar jin daɗi sosai
Wannan yasa:
kusanci da zumunci sukan fi daɗi a lokacin sanyi. - Sabon aure + sanyi = soyayya mai ƙarfi
Sabbin ma’aurata suna:
yawan zama tare
yawan hira
yawan runguma
Idan aka haɗa wannan da sanyi, yana haifar da:
zumunci mai ƙarfi
ƙauna mai zurfi
da tunanin juna fiye da komai
Wannan shine dalilin da yasa da yawa ke cewa:
“Sabon aure lokacin sanyi yafi daɗi.” - Sanyi yana rage damuwa
Sanyi na taimakawa:
kwakwalwa ta yi sanyi
jiki ya samu natsuwa
tunani ya kasance a bude
Wannan yana rage:
fushi
tashin hankali
gajiya
Kuma yana ƙara:
fahimta, haƙuri da tausayi tsakanin ma’aurata.
Kammalawa
Hakika, sabuwar aure yafi daɗi lokacin sanyi saboda:
kusanci ya ƙaru
soyayya ta zurfafa
jiki da zuciya suna amsawa da kyau
Idan ma’aurata sun yi amfani da wannan lokaci da hikima, zai iya gina tushe mai ƙarfi na aure mai ɗorewa.
